All escaped without injury. Maybe they can help with that, but ultimately it has to have to find courage with yourself to try. Is it a dark place or a paradise. Figure out who you are and what you re really looking for instead of knee-jerk dating in response to fear and loneliness. Seriously, thinking that you re owed a breakup or some lengthy discussion based on one or a few dates is like thinking that you ve bought a house after viewing it a few times or that you have the job after doing three interviews.